tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post3281351144786992014..comments2024-03-28T02:15:48.716-05:00Comments on Chasing Dreams: The Pathetic GirlTamara Hart Heinerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07562765111202443160noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-52635445456611242312010-02-09T06:18:14.515-06:002010-02-09T06:18:14.515-06:00ha ha Em! Of course you know the last one. The oth...ha ha Em! Of course you know the last one. The other two shall remain anonymous! #3 was pretty lame. I gave the ring back, but I made him work for it.Tamara Hart Heinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07562765111202443160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-89738850981769466892010-02-09T00:11:44.365-06:002010-02-09T00:11:44.365-06:00Whoa, I wonder who 1 and 2 were... I probably know...Whoa, I wonder who 1 and 2 were... I probably know one, but I didn't know the specifics. I think 3 was just despicable, he really led you on. I mean c'mon he DID give you a ring. HE was the pathetic one. (you still have that?)<br /><br />I think after being pathetic once or twice, I decided I didn't want to be, and spent a long time just being ALONE! But that's okay, because my Aaron and Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15366490612211481247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-73778037281997387992010-02-08T05:28:23.976-06:002010-02-08T05:28:23.976-06:00good for you, Vicky! Way to learn fast!
Too true,...good for you, Vicky! Way to learn fast!<br /><br />Too true, Dominique. We must learn some of our own lessons. I just wish I'd been a faster learner!<br /><br />SB--I was pathetic until age 23 too! Then I got burned for the LAST time. It totally hardened me. Made me the mean girl. And that's when I met DH!<br /><br />Sarah--ugh! So sorry you went through that too! It's liked we ASKED Tamara Hart Heinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07562765111202443160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-31848289617492228632010-02-07T23:25:24.749-06:002010-02-07T23:25:24.749-06:00I'm all for that, chica! When I like a guy, pe...I'm all for that, chica! When I like a guy, people are always like, "Why don't you make the first move?" And I'm like, "No, I'm tired of that. If he wants me, he'll do something about it." I was that girl once too. But I won't be anymore! :)Vicky Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14549357831278863152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-26001686571605477062010-02-07T20:38:34.372-06:002010-02-07T20:38:34.372-06:00I learned the MAJOR hardway. I saw myself in your ...I learned the MAJOR hardway. I saw myself in your stories, almost to a T! As "pathetic" as the tales were, it's easy to think that way after the fact... But when you're really in love with someone, it is SO hard to grow the spine that you really need to have!! (But how AWESOME does it feel when you <b>finally</b> grow it?)Sara {Rhapsody and Chaos}https://www.blogger.com/profile/09824996048264979275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-28307086089320757312010-02-07T19:53:26.009-06:002010-02-07T19:53:26.009-06:00I so want to ensure my daughter knows how to be th...I so want to ensure my daughter knows how to be the hard to get girl. and that no matter how much you want to show the guy you're great, the hard to get play will show him that!<br /><br />I was pathetic from around age fifteen until 23 (and even after at points)...but I bought the book, why men love bitches, and followed many of its essential points, and am married to j.b. now i am not one Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00776958716300701782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-15359336257577830482010-02-07T16:06:10.671-06:002010-02-07T16:06:10.671-06:00Learning. The knowledge seems to come and go, sin...Learning. The knowledge seems to come and go, since my mind doesn't like making connections between related scenarios. My brain is punishing me for something.<br /><br />I prefer to suck all the wisdom possible out of other people's mistakes, but quite frankly, I don't think anyone gets anywhere without making some mistakes of their own along the way.Kelsey (Dominique) Ridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10646757546422013401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-46545007792153260692010-02-07T15:08:39.529-06:002010-02-07T15:08:39.529-06:00good for you, Mireyah! I wish I'd had that com...good for you, Mireyah! I wish I'd had that common sense!Tamara Hart Heinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07562765111202443160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-17259168428282400902010-02-07T15:00:58.212-06:002010-02-07T15:00:58.212-06:00I'm generally surrounded by people that have m...I'm generally surrounded by people that have made mondo-uber-super-big mistakes and I was raised to be smart enough to <i>recognize</i> that they were mistakes and do my best to avoid them. <br /><br />I definitely learn from observing. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-33051988931584874132010-02-07T14:26:34.032-06:002010-02-07T14:26:34.032-06:00I'm all in favor of playing hard to get. If he...I'm all in favor of playing hard to get. If he wants you, he'll chase. If he doesn't, move on! I wish I'd known it when I was younger!Tamara Hart Heinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07562765111202443160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7903433327920936021.post-6414144073514086012010-02-07T14:12:11.082-06:002010-02-07T14:12:11.082-06:00Wow, you really layed it all out on the table. I a...Wow, you really layed it all out on the table. I admire that kind of internet honesty. <br /><br />I was pathetic, but always from a distance. I was one of those piners without the guts enough to actually make my feelings known. I got over it in college when I had a strange relationship with the first guy I'd ever actually TOLD how I felt and still nothing good came of it and then an awful Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13580188285831662788noreply@blogger.com